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Tooth fairy original story
Tooth fairy original story





tooth fairy original story

Fran Walfish, author of The Self-Aware Parent, the answer is both yes and no. What happens to the trust a child has in a parent when the lie is discovered? Wouldn’t it be only natural for a child to feel betrayed on learning the truth? Is it worse when the child hears the truth from a friend, and discovers his own parents have lied to him?Īnd what about the child who tells the friend that his mother told him that Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny are real creatures, and his mother never lies-only to discover that his mother has, indeed, lied.Īnd what is the effect of all this when you’ve never lied to your child about anything except for the “lies” about Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny? Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny: Benign Practice?ĭo these questions show us that the subject of mythological creatures is more complicated that anyone might have supposed? Or is this just a lot of fuss and bother over the perpetuation of a belief in make-believe characters-something most of us think of as a benign practice, harmless. Teaching kids to believe in these creatures is, on the other hand, teaching them lies. “This way kids still get to enjoy the magic and the wonder of these characters without having to believe that they actually exist,” says Harvey, who is the executive director of Parents, Teachers, and Advocates, a parent development group in Atlanta, GA. Then it becomes fun to examine: ‘Okay, what’s going down with the Easter Bunny at Easter? Let’s look around and see how the Easter Bunny has become bigger than life.’ Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny: The Magic “I encourage parents to tell their children about the origins of these fictional characters and to talk about how the stories have become bigger than life. Parenting coach Barbara Harvey doesn’t think that the focus on these mythical creatures is all bad, but she does think the practice of encouraging belief in make-believe figures sets children up for disappointment and disillusionment. These questions lead to more questions: Is the belief in mythological characters like Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny beneficial to children? Does it harm a child to be misled by his own parents, even if the misleading information was meant kindly? Should parents continue or discontinue this practice?

tooth fairy original story

Should the parent come clean? How will the child feel on learning the truth? How will the parent feel to watch the child wrestling with the death of strong-held childhood beliefs? At some point, someone busts the bubble and a child might approach a parent: “Is it true there’s no such thing as (choose one: Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, or the Easter Bunny)?” We think of them as real and our parents encourage this belief. Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, and the Easter Bunny are mythological creatures many of us believe in as children.







Tooth fairy original story